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1. Practice good personal grooming habits. If you are going to have colored hair, keep your roots covered. If you are going to have fake nails, keep them filled. Take care of your skin, take care of your teeth. 

2. Dress modestly. Gain attention through who you are rather than the parts of your body you choose to expose. It is worth far more in the long run. 

3. Certain fashion staples will always remain timeless. A few conservative dresses, a string of pearls, a nice handbag and a good pair of pumps should always be in your wardrobe. 

4. Write thank you notes. It is one of the best ways to make a good impression and literally takes five seconds. It is a dying art that so desperately needs to be revived. If someone is nice enough to give you a gift or recommend you to a position, the…

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I crave to be held, touched,
loved, wanted, so I push you
away because I want it far
too much. That little, needy
child inside of me with 
outstretched arms and 
tearstained cheeks is
the scariest, darkest
part of me.

Sometimes, falling asleep in Santa Monica, he wondered vaguely if there might have been a larger system, a field of greater perspective. Perhaps the whole of DatAmerica possessed its own nodal points, infofaults that might be followed down to some other kind of truth, another mode of knowing, deep within the gray shoals of information. But only if there were someone there to pose the right question.

- William Gibson 

Với giáo dục, chúng ta khỏe mạnh hơn (không ăn nhậu bừa bãi và tự đầu độc), chúng ta sáng suốt hơn (không bị những lời hoa mỹ bịp), thương người khác nhiều hơn (vì chúng ta biết so sánh chínhmình với thế giới) và gần với Thượng Đế hơn (khi biết đọc và tìm hiểu thêm về văn hóa nghệ thuật). Quên, chúng ta cũng giàu hơn (nếu không lúc này thì sẽ có một ngày). Trên hết, một người có “giáo dục” là một con người tự do đúng nghĩa.

- Alan Phan-

“With education, we’re healthier, wiser (being not deceived by flowery words), more compassionate (knowing how to compare ourselves to the rest of the world) and closer to God (being literate and exposed to culture and arts). We’re also potentially wealthier (if not now then someday). Above all, an educated person is a free person in the truest sense.” – Alan

I think we often forget the fact that we human beings play a huge part in shaping animals the way they are today. Imagine if our ancestors had not domesticated the wild dogs (not even for sentimental reason but economic), would we have been able to have the loyal cutesie loving pets today? In a sense, as “messed up” as we might be, we are also the ones that bring out the love in animals. Not that they were unfeeling before, but we, to some extent, have humanized them. By extricating the dog/cat/etc from the wild and letting them live in OUR home, we have infected them with our human behavior, our ways of interacting and loving. We have enabled animals to trust and be unconditionally loyal.  

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Chúng ta thật may mắn khi có được ngôn từ để nói, để viết để diễn đạt và truyền tải thông điệp tới cho nhau. Chúng ta tự hào có ngôn ngữ riêng mà không phải quốc gia nào cũng có (một ngôn ngữ mà nhiều người nước ngoài nói là Hay như chim hót).

Trong đạo Phật , tôi đã được chia sẻ rằng : “ Khi con giao tiếp, con hãy dùng Ái ngữ” .

Ái ngữ chính là ngôn từ thể hiện tình yêu thương, trong sáng, thiện ý và tốt đẹp.
Hạnh phúc là được chia sẻ và yêu thương. Hạnh phúc lại chẳng ở đâu xa, hay cần những món quà vào một dịp nào đó để thể hiện tình yêu thương, sự quan tâm và lòng biết ơn của bạn dành cho một ai đó.

Đơn giản hãy dành tặng cho chính mình, gia…

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“Âmes que j’ai aimés, âmes que j’ai chantés, fortifiez-moi, soutenez-moi, éloignez de moi le mensonge et les vapeurs corruptrices du monde, et vous, Seigneur mon Dieu, accordez-moi la grâce de produire quelques beaux vers qui me prouvent à moi-même que je ne suis pas le dernier des hommes, que je ne suis pas inférieur à ceux que je méprise!”

-Charles Baudelaire, Le Spleen de Paris   

- Pogo

In his article “Magic Words and False Gods,” published in The Freeman’s October 2013 issue, Mr. Gian Pierro de Bellis exposes hypostatization’s’ fallacy of ascribing real existence to mental constructs such as the “society” and the “market.” His warning has made me wonder about the threat hypostatization poses to our libertarian movement.

Let’s imagine a scenario where a Libertarian party triumphs in national elections and takes over the government. What a dream come true – finally, a bona fide libertarian state! Effectively, the new leaders implement policies that libertarians advocate: free market, free trade. Everything seems to be going wonderfully, EXCEPT for the fact that this libertarian state has also bestowed upon the market with godlike qualities, and revered it like a new religion. The new leaders worship the Market to the point of being radical and irrational, that they would persecute anyone who dares even suggest a possibility of forming a government (Yes, the new state has done away with any former central authority once and for all!). The Libertarian Guard seeks out and executes any potential “enemies” of the free market – members of the old government to intellectuals who espouse different ideas. There is even a special intelligence committee to monitor the population for any possession of communist and socialist materials. Everything to protect the God of liberty.

This over-the-top example serves to illustrate what I see as the absurdity and the grave danger of hypostatization. It represents an error and a manipulation of thinking. As de Bellis indicates, politicians hypostatize not only because it is convenient to stick to the ambiguity and gloss over details, but also to inspire and exploit their audience’s desire for “a promised land.” Human beings have this tendency to look for something that they can depend on, spiritually or not – a source of protection, a promise of security or a solution to all miseries. When our trust in one “protector” runs out, we can readily look for another, and as a result, ideologues take advantage of this to promote their entity that can serve as an alternative “protector,” whether it be the “government,” the “workers’ paradise,” or the “market.”

Therefore, we must be more aware so as not to fall into the trap of hypostatization. De Bellis proposes the Orwell solution and the Bridgman solution to hypostatization and I would like to build upon those. Not only should we be clearer, more concise and concrete, but we should also never cease to better our own understanding of liberty in order to be more concise and concrete. Prior to replacing “the market” with “people engaged in free exchanges” in his discourses, the speaker has to be able to understand what are “free exchanges,” to describe this as a complex system of interactions, and to explain their merits. By doing so, he can improve both the clarity and the substance of his argument, and thus strengthen its legitimacy.

Finally, avoiding hypostatization prevents us from blaming another entity (like the “government”) for all the problems and fixating on that entity as the “enemy” to eradicate. In Ethics of Liberty, Murray Rothbard has affirmed: “For ultimately, there is no entity called “government”; there are only people forming themselves into groups and acting in a “governmental” manner.” We cannot simply condemn “them,” the government, as evil, and “us” as good, for after all, regardless of the system we are in, we are human beings with the same old imperfections. And so:

There is really only one reason for libertarians to oppose the formation of governmental property or to call for its divestment: the realization that the rulers of government are unjust and criminal owners of such property. (Rothbard)

Working toward a truly libertarian society requires this realization and our ceaseless efforts to promote respect for the precious natural right to self-ownership.

An old man likes to have a little air of mystery about himself. I like to hold on to my little mysteries.

Ho Chi Minh, in William Duiker’s biography Ho Chi Minh: A Life


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